dear deb,

dear deb,

sorry for being such a terribly absentminded friend! after browsing my entries, i realized i keep forgetting to include you, so sorry about that. it's just, you and i are both aware of the strange dynamics of our friendship; the pro and con being one and the same - we're never PHYSICALLY there for each other, but in every other sense of the word 'there', we are - so much so that i forget you're one of the few that have been there all along.

haha. i think you know what i mean.

i'm so used to not having you around and vice versa, that i think it might be a little weird to actually be in the same place at the same time, you know? whenever anything happens, you're usually the first person that comes to mind, but instead of calling, i run straight to my laptop and start writing an email. haha. it's probably the same for you - the emailing bit. but this works for us; our friendship functions precisely because we're not IN each others' lives on a daily basis, and we can see things from a healthy perspective.

the sad part is, having not spent much time in each others' presence, i don't have the same chance to discover your quirks and eccentricities the way your friends do. i guess that's the tradeoff huh.

anyway, this was just my way of saying thank you. for being 'there'. always. and i hope you'll continue to be *smile* as i will, for you.

love,
vicks